Gay sex positions

If we're talking two people with vulvas, you can definitely still enjoy doggy with a strap-on. Or just grind and rub up against each other, inserting fingers or massaging your partner's clit or nipples. Sexologist Lauren French says if you want to get deeper penetration, you could move your arms down so you're resting on your forearms and your face is down more.

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Side-by-Side: Offering intimacy and the ability to maintain eye contact, the side-by-side position allows partners to engage emotionally while enjoying physical pleasure. This position can also involve pumping motions, adding excitement and variety. The key lies in open conversations, understanding partner preferences, and mutual respect.

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This gay doggy-style position allows for deeper and harder penetration. It allows the top to be more in control, and the bottom to submit. The penetrator starts by lying on their back, and the receiver sits on top, straddling their body. This is a great gay sex position to start in particularly if the bottom is tight and wants to be more in control.

This position is like doggy style except the top is facing away from the bottom. Because of this, thrusting is somewhat limited. Goldstein has extensive experience educating and shedding light on health care issues relating to the gay community, and has been published in several national publications including The Advocate, OUT Magazine, Vice, Refinery 29, NY Mag and more.